If an old man shows up to watch the high school girl's volleyball matches daily, maybe he really likes volleyball, right? An old woman would definitely have the privilege of that assumption. An old man wouldn't. Welcome to society, it will never be perfect and that's ok. Trying to turn the dials and create a perfect one is the stuff of comic book villains. It looks like the west has solved so much that it is starting to go backwards. In the third world we have actual cases of families forcing daughters to stay home or worse, get married at Give me a break with this Nerf ball stuff.
Yeah, I feel genuinely self-conscious when I take my son to the local park. Especially in the moments he is briefly out of sight and there I am just a lone male at a park with a phone in his hand.
The "all men are rapists" sexism is really getting to us too. I don't think I'm the only one. I've come to the conclusion that life sucks in some way to some degree for everyone, everywhere and this is necessarily the case.
When you bend something into a shape that suits you it is bent out of shape for someone else. She even states it when she says now men are sometimes avoiding being alone with Women because it represents a risk they don't want to take. It's the hard problem of delineation. We all need to take a little bit of crap in our lives but it's close to impossible to delineate what the parameters for yourself and others are such that everyone is taking the minimum amount of crap possible and the system is also stable.
Some time ago, there was this news article - an old man was turned away from a park, because he was alone and because everyone else in the park were "a family with kids" and they won't feel comfortable with a "single old man by himself" don't remember the exact words, but this is the gist of it. It gets worse. A woman with her son just a kid was asked by other moms to leave, because they were all mums with daughters and she was the only one with a son. I don't get the logic at all.
